Name
*
First Name
Last Name
Date of Birth
*
MM
DD
YYYY
Email
*
Phone Number
Sex/Gender
Male
Female
Other
Orientation
*
Straight
Gay
Bisexual
Other
Status
*
Single (less than 12 months)
Single (more than 12 months)
Married/De Facto
Open Relationship
Dating/Uncommitted
It's Complicated
Ethnicity
*
Caucasian
Asian
African/African-American
Hispanic/Latin
Native/Indigenous
Financial Situation
*
Survival level income
Beyond survival level (net worth <50k)
Financially secure (net worth <200k)
Affluent (net worth <1M)
Wealthy (net worth 1-5M)
Super wealthy (net worth 5M+)
I'd rather not say
Children
*
I don't have children and don't want to have them
I don't have children and possibly want them
I don't have children and definitely want them
I do have children who live with me full-time
I do have children who live with me sometime
Health Status
Radiantly healthy and strong
Super fit and health conscious
Healthy but not obsessive
Healthy enough to function in life
I have a few health issues but overall ok
Chronic health problems
Height
*
Body Type
*
Thin/Slender
Muscular/Athletic
Curvy
Average
Larger Than Life
Relationship Type
What type of relationship are you seeking. (You can choose more than one but the more specific the better.)
Friendship
Short Term (Travel/Companionship)
Short Term (Casual/Hookup)
Mid Term (Dating/Possible Future)
Long Term (Spouse/Partner)
Spiritual Relationship (Soulmate)
Relationship Logistics
*
Geographical distance between you and your partner.
Local Only (Must be in the same city/region)
Interstate (Not willing to relocate)
Interstate (Willing to relocate)
International (Not willing to relocate)
International (Willing to relocate)
Distance Relationship Only (Online/Phone)
Family Background
*
Describe your upbringing, background and the relationship you have had with our family.
Who You Are: Personality and Core Values
*
Please describe yourself honestly and as accurately as possible. What are your personality traits, unique abilities, quirks and habits? How do you generally express yourself (ie. are you more an introvert/extrovert etc.) What are your core values and beliefs (things that are most important to you).
Who You Are: Work & Lifestyle
*
What type of life are you currently living? What type of work or study are you engaged in? How much free time do you have an what do you enjoy doing when not working or studying? Hobbies, interests, favorite places and things to do.
Who You Are: Long Term Plans and Goals
*
Where do you see yourself in 5 or 10 years? Include goals related to health, career, relationships, family, travel and self-development. How will your partner fit into this picture?
Partner's Physical Appearance
*
Please describe the specifics you are looking for in regards to your partners appearance, body type, facial features and fitness level.
How important is emotional connection with someone, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not important at all. 3= It matters but I'm more realistic in nature. 5= Nice if its there but I can live without it. 7= Its a priority and very important. 10= Its the most important thing in a relationship.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is it to experience physical attraction with someone, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not important at all. 3= I'm not superficial but I still care a little. 5= Nice if its there but I can live without it. 7= It's really important but not a deal-breaker. 10= It's the most important thing for me.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is work, livelihood and finances to me (in a potential partner), on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= It doesn't matter at all, I don't care what they do or how much money they have. 3= I want someone who is purposeful, but I don't care about their financial situation. 5= I would hope they can at least match my situation with work and finance. 7= Its very important and I prefer a successful person who is in a good position financially. 10= It's the most important thing for me.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is religion and spirituality in a relationship, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not important at all. I'm not religious or spiritual and prefer someone the same as me. 3= I'm interested in these things but its not a major focus for me. I'm open to the views of others. 5= I'm religious/spiritual but not in a way that dictates my relationships. 7= I'm religious/spiritual and would prefer someone who is too, though its not a deal-breaker if they aren't. 10= I'm absolutely devoted to my faith and/or spiritual path and need someone who is too.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is social life in a relationship, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not important, I'm a complete hermit. 3= I like socialising but not that often. I would prefer a partner who likes the quiet life. 5= I would like to have a healthy balance of public and private in my relationship. 7= I'm quite social, friends and family are very important to me. My partner would need to be ok with this but I don't expect them to be the same. 10= I'm always out socialising and I want someone to share this with.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is it to feel a sense of similarity to your partner, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not important, I'd rather feel completely different so I can remain totally independent and free. 3= It's important to have a few basic things in common, but too many similarities makes for a boring relationship. 5= It's best to have an equal balance of similarities and differences in a relationship. 7= Overall I prefer to feel that the person I am with is similar to me in most ways, but not all as variety is the spice of life. 10= I want to be with someone who is always on the same wavelength with me. It makes me feel safe and emotionally content.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How important is intimacy to you in a relationship, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= I don't need intimate connection or physical touch. I prefer relationships to be business-like. 3= It's nice to have intimacy but I'm not always comfortable with this area of relating. 5= It's important to me but there are still other areas of the relationship that I value as much as intimacy. 7= It's very important to me and a priority in a relationship. 10= There is nothing more important to me in a relationship than intimacy, touch and romance. I want someone on the same page as me.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
How much time are you willing to invest in this relationship, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Hardly any time. I'm always flat out. 3= I plan to see my partner in my free time but I'm pretty busy. 5= I would like to spend at least half my available time with my partner. 7= I want to see them as much as possible, and I have a lot of time I can give them. 10= I want to spend all the time with them and I am in a position to do this.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
(For Men) How traditional are you in your expectations of women being feminine, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not traditional at all. I prefer women to be tough and more masculine. Soft women are a turn off for me. 3= I'm a modern man who prefers modern women who are independent and free of stereotypes. I still appreciate feminine women though. 5= I'm open to anyone. I have no preference either way for a woman who is feminine or more masculine. 7= I'm pretty traditional and think men should be men and women should be women. I also accept the world has changed however. 10= I firmly believe men and women should stick to their roles and what has happened in the past. I like women who are gentle, maternal and emotional.
N/A (I'm a Woman)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
(For Women) How traditional are you in your expectations of men being masculine, on a scale of 1-10?
*
1= Not traditional at all. Masculine men and alpha males turn me off. 3= I do like masculinity in men but I still lean towards more sensitive men who are emotionally aware. 5= I can appreciate men who are masculine or more sensitive, I am open to either if they are a good match. 7= I am quite traditional and comfortable with men being in familiar expressions of masculinity. I find I function better when things are polarised in this way. 10= I'm very traditional and want a man who is strong, successful and confident in his masculinity. I am happy to play a more feminine role in the relationship.
N/A (I'm a Man)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
Anything further you want to add?
Anything that was missed in the questionaire regarding who you are, who you are looking for, specific details and major turn-offs to avoid.
Privacy Policy
*
I have read and agree to the Affinity One Privacy Policy and Terms and Conditions
Yes