Matchmaking, evolved.

We believe we have the most advanced selection method and philosophy out there… and we want you to understand why.

Matchmaking services are hard to find and often expensive to join. They usually require upfront member fees or subscriptions and will usually provide you with a set number of introductions, matches or dates in a given time period. Their selection method is based on profiling, often done though a consultation or questionaire and is limited to the profiles on their database.

Based on the success stories, we would assume that matchmaking often hits the mark in a way that dating sites don’t. People love personalised service and special attention when it comes to potentially making the most decision of their lives. This is why matchmaking has been around thousands of years and is still considered a high art and science in many cultures.

If matchmaking doesn’t always work however, its worth taking a moment to ponder why that is. At Affinity One, we believe it has to do with a deep and intimate knowledge of the subconscious and how it plays out for each person. It’s a matter of emotional motivation and the spectrum between Stability (in neuroscience this feeling is achieved through serotonin) and Passion (the feeling produced through dopamine).

You see, when you answer a bunch of questions, or talk to a consultant about who you are and what you want, its usually your conscious mind that is responding to the stimuli and the questions. You will no doubt talk quite reasonably and logically about your personality, your history, your job, your aspirations and your preferences.

That's fine. Those things matter.

But that is not the key to finding out who you are and what you really want!

And while most matchmakers tend to promote themselves as intuitive as well as logical, what they often lack is a knowledge base that can help identify where their clients are situated on this spectrum of Stability and Passion. They often fail to see the essence of the individual and who they really are, as opposed to how they present themselves.

Because, often what we really want is not revealed by what we say and what our mind settles on to feel secure. It is something deeper, more subtle and profound. And it takes something extra from the would-be matchmaker to realize it and extend their awareness to include this when they “profile” a client.

Affinity One is, to the best of our knowledge, the first relationship consultancy agency to utilise knowledge of the subconscious and how it organises our emotional states into action plans. These we call the four Affinity Zones. Following the work and discoveries of Mr. Leo Kendrick, an Australian born researcher and pioneer in the field of individual psychology, relationship dynamics and the laws of polarity among people, we put all this knowledge into one practical goal - the art of science of bringing people together.